Thursday, August 28, 2008

Quote of the Week


Shades of grey wherever I go
The more I find out the less that I know
Black and white is how it should be
But shades of grey are the colors I see

- Billy Joel, from Shades of Grey

A Grassroots Movement

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Monday, August 25, 2008

Saturday, August 23, 2008

19:52 - It Begins Again

Today was Jordan's first cross country meet of the season, a fairly small varsity race at Foster Park right near TUFW. The Blackhawk boys team is in a bit of transition of this year with new coaches and Jordan as the only returning runner and only senior. Only three guys were eligible to run today, as the others had come out late and hadn't been to enough practices to be allowed to race.
Jordan started out stronger than usual, which was good. His first mile was in six minutes, his second in 6:20 and then he hit the wall a little in the heat. He ended up finishing in 24th place in a time of 19 minutes 52 seconds.

Friday, August 22, 2008

Pool Party

Jeannette and Jordan took MelodyJoy to our neighborhood pools. The weather's been pretty warm and muggy lately. The main pool was closed so they were relegated to the wading pool.





Thursday, August 21, 2008

Sir! Yes, Sir!

Quote of the Week

“Doing business without advertising is like winking at someone in the dark. You know what you are doing, but nobody else does.”

- Stuart Henderson Britt

Wednesday, August 20, 2008

Apologies

Sorry there haven't been any posts lately. I think that the lack of posts from time to time is probably indicative of how my life is going. As I wrote on my Facebook status two days ago, "Palmer isn't burned out yet, but is getting crispy around the edges."

Wednesday, August 13, 2008

Quote of the Week

“Worry is a special form of fear. The traditional distinction is that fear is caused by an external source while worry or anxiety is produced from the inside. Yet they produce the same physical responses. Worry is fear that has unpacked its bags and signed a long-term lease. Worry never moves out of its own accord—it has to be evicted.”

- John Ortberg
If You Want to Walk on Water, You’ve Got to Get Out of the Boat
p. 123

Pokagon State Park

Yesterday, I took most of the day off and we drove about 45 minutes north of our house to Angola, Indiana, to Pokagon State Park. When we got there, we spent a few minutes at a little playground, had a picnic lunch of peanut butter and honey sandwiches, then rented a couple of bicycles to go with the three that we had put in the back of the truck and went for a little bike ride.




After that, we headed for the main destination, Lake James. It's no Hilton Head or St. Pete Beach but we had a nice time there and I did my customary warm water activity of just sitting or standing out in the water and letting the tides bounce me up and down.


We were a little surprised that playing in the sand was a more attractive activity than the water itself . . .










Phillip's super hero alter ego, Towel Man . . .

And his arch enemy, Jameson . . .

Before we left, Jordan insisted on trying out the camera underwater. One small detail he forgot about: He doesn't like opening his eyes underwater.

Sunday, August 10, 2008

Before and After

A year ago, when I bought our house, this is what it looked like . . .You can't really tell from these pictures, because the front door is open, but the door is painted white with windows on each side trimmed in cream or tan . . .

This week, Jeannette decided to change things up a little. She painted the door and the doorway red and also painted a rocking chair and footstool red . . .

You can't really tell from the photos above but Jeannette also changed a lot of the landscaping around the house. She put in some rose bushes, tore out a lot of plants and replanted others.

Saturday, August 09, 2008

Sweet 18

8-8-08
Jordan's 18th Birthday

Hard to believe we are the parents of an 18-year-old. Since we didn't get our act together to plan a party, Jeannette and I thought it might be special to take Jordan out for dinner at his favorite restaurant . . . Red Lobster.

He ordered crab legs and salmon . . .

When we got home, Jameson fired up the cake . . .

Every time I took a picture of Jordan with the cake, his eyes were closed, so this was his solution . . .
Someone was quite excited about her brother's birthday . . .




Last night I gave Jordan a note that I wrote, which said in part:

I can’t wait to see what you will become in the years ahead. The combination of your people-skills (well, at least those skills that don’t relate to your immediate family), your problem- and puzzle-solving abilities, your physical prowess, your intellect, your heart and your work ethic . . . well, you have a good start on life. I truly think that you can do anything God guides you into. Whether you are a missionary, an engineer, a builder, a mechanic, a teacher, a dad, a husband, you will make a difference for the better in this world.

Wednesday, August 06, 2008

Quote of the Week


“Nuclear weapons are so 20th century.”

- Mahmoud Ahmadinejad,
President of Iran

Tuesday, August 05, 2008

An Epiphany


Last night, as I got ready for bed, I had an epiphany.

I thought back to when I was 16 years old and 18 years old, the same age as Phillip and Jordan are now. I thought about my competencies and about my dad. I thought about how, as a teenager, there really wasn't anything I was better at than my father and there really wasn't anything that I knew more about than he did. Oh, sure, I probably had a much better knowledge of popular music, TV shows and movies, but that was about the only area where I could top him.

Then I thought about Jordan and Phillip and realized that there are many things they do better than I and many subjects about which they know more than I do. And, no, we're not just talking about games at the arcade or on the Wii.

On Sunday, the driver's side window on the Durango finally gave out. It's given us a hard time occasionally ever since we got it but this time it really did refuse to roll up when you flipped the switch. Time for a trip to the mechanic (i.e., time to actually find a mechanic here in Fort Wayne). No. Jordan wanted to see if he could fix it for us. He took the door apart. He fiddled with the switches and wires. He went and bought a voltometer to test the wiring. He bought a motor at Napa Auto Parts and tried to install it. Now this story doesn't end in triumph . . . when all was said and done, he couldn't fix it and we still have to find a mechanic (and try to get our money back on that motor!) but the point is that he actually had a clue about how to work on the car, something I couldn't have done at 18 or 48. Heck, I tried to take Melody's temperature with that voltometer!

Last summer, the boys built a fence in our backyard in Klamath Falls. It took me seven years to finally leave town so that they could give it a try.

They know how to play the tuba . . . the flute . . . percussion. I know how to play the radio. Well, actually, I can play the radio but I don't think I can play an iPod.



Phillip's the one we ask when there are computer problems to be addressed. When I got my new cell phone a few weeks ago, he told me how to set up the quick dial settings. When our DVD burner came in the mail, he figured out how it worked. Whenever our wireless network goes down, he's the one we yell for . . . or at.

They're both way better at math than I ever was or ever will be. They have better SAT scores. They have better hair.

Jordan helped install our new wood floor in the kitchen. He got our friend Eric's chainsaw working and chopped up the branches from our trees into little pieces of firewood. And there's no doubt that Jordan climbs trees better than I do.

Phillip now has his learner's permit and has started driving again for the first time since we moved to Indiana. Jordan's been driving for well over a year now. If nothing else, I think I'm still a better driver than either of them. But I suppose even that will change someday.

I'm not saying that they know more about everything than I do, or that they're better at everything than I am. No way. But they do top me in a number of areas, and I don't think that's something I could have said about my dad when I was their age.

By the way, please don't let either of them read this post. They're insufferable enough as it is.

Sleeping Beauty

Found this in the camera tonight . . . apparently Melody fell asleep in her closet a few days ago and one of the boys snapped a photo.

Saturday, August 02, 2008

One Year Down

Yesterday marked the one year anniversary of our arrival in Fort Wayne. We drove into town on August 1st and the boys spent the night on the floor in our new house. On August 2nd, the moving truck showed up and unloaded all of our stuff. It's been a good year, though not without some setbacks now and then. To celebrate the milestone, we all went out to Zesto's for ice cream this evening . . . and then Jordan spent the rest of the evening taking apart the driver's door on our Durango to see if he could make it so that the window will roll up. He assures me he can put it back together again.